Friday, February 21, 2025

Lost & Found this!

Who would have thought? In an alien city, I meet my bestie's brothers, known to me after maybe more than 25 years… !! 



A fantastic start to the Sangam Snan morning!

Spicy Bread pakora & chai!



A picture to remember! 




Manu does the most tricky job. Pouring hot tea from polythene into ‘kulhads’. 


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My local companion assigned to me by my Travel Company was Gulshan. He turns up in a bike to swerve me around town to reach me to Saraswati Ghat from where we make an onward journey by boat to Triveni Sangam. 

This Army View Point there gave me some amazing view of the river. 








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Gulshan, my local companion, is mostly clueless and I have to resort to my own agencies a lot more often than I was prepared for, I’m gradually gathering this.


 While he goes looks for a boat for me to board I decide to have some fun clicking  tangerine-kesar-maroon hues.








There is a great haggle and ruckus over fetching a boat and getting a seat seemed like a challenge. 

I wait and take some selfies and other shots that interest me. 






This was constantly a nagging knowledge imploring to stop me in my tracks right there and make a turn about. 



At places, people are setting up a quick-fix Pooja ritual… 


And at places washing themselves


Sport of Paragliding 



Just one picture I could click of the myriad different murals painted all over the city. Just so much hardwork put in beautifying the city seemed commendable to say the least. 


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My local companion tells me, ‘Here’s your boat, I’ll be here when you come back’,  and I’m like what ?? NOOoo …

 In a second, as I set one foot on the pulpit of that massive boat with one hand held to his and the other to the boatman, a piddly puny undernourished fella, I realise my future is not in good hands. I peer over his shoulder to look at the co-passengers… nope, I decide… none of them look like they’ll put their life at stake to keep me from drowning, were I to go down  … and the faded, pale, life jackets asking for a mend of buckles and life themselves didn’t do the trick either… I wasn’t going on this one… 


I take my step out of this boat. After so much time spent on finding one and haggle and coax, I felt sorry for Gulshan but as much as I was anxious and dying to step onto a boat  which would take me to the spot where I m determined to cleanse my soul, I couldn’t step into it. ‘Maybe,another carrier, I thought but  this one, not in this lifetime!’


I step out


My local companion runs behind me with diffidence and helplessness…he says, ‘you wait madame, I’ll do something! 

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He does eventually find a boat for me, albeit, with an extra top-up ; the boatman said he’ll reach me to where the  Triveni confluence occurs! 


Hurray!!! (With renewed self belief!)


I find a suitable jacket




And a boatman suitable for his job 






Later, I thank him for rising up to a job profile which requires trust be honoured & earned by performance. He said he’ll fix a motor very soon on his boat. 

And offered Malkist crackers and some ‘baksheesh’. for I was repeatedly drowning in the river and he saved my life… (in my head) and now I thought I can go back home to my children safely 😛!

This was for gags really!

I click some pictures I wanted to take back as memories. 

The Triveni Ganges, ladies & gentlemen! 
















All this makes me feel I don’t need anything else. A quick click for my dp.😁⏬


I find good company too


People joining me on the boat were from Jaipur & Rajasthan. The fluorescent orange jacket gives me some assurance and confidence about setting out on this adventure.
 In retrospect I think, I would never do anything fun and adventurous if it wasn’t for my foolhardiness and faith. 









The first touch with the Sangam wali Gangaji!



I was in a ‘ArdhVeerbhadr’ pose under water to stabilise myself and stayed like this for some time.
Mind was crystal clear! 🤍 



Ye karna bahot achcha lagta hai! 



I found the perfect females’ company. 
All the media, replete with articles, ‘why one shouldn’t take the dip’ … but this water right in the middle of the Triveni Sangam, quelled all my doubts and apprehensions. One  “C’mon,get in!!” from the woman in pink made me decide ‘this is it!’ And I slid in like a fish taking to water! 





This was a good blessed day! 


Fresh and changed with the dip glow! 


Setting out to return

Thanking the Indian Army Facility. 
Things were smoother. 


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A random pic of the Pandit in his resting time 



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I was staying with a welcoming family which offered me tea and snacks and a let me in into their living space for both evenings with ‘अतिथि देवो भव‘ candor. 




This is Julie’s ( in red suit) sweet and nice family. 

They’ve been to the ghats many times over in this last one onth and seen the much talked about laser lights show on Saraswati ghat. She recommends it to me and  simultaneously also switches on her TV to show me the laser light show available on YouTube. It’s definitely something I would say, I missed watching on ground. 

Julie, as the doting mother of three beautiful children and a loving husband is fondly known, invites me in for a delicious opportunity of Chai, Chat n chakli, which after an eventful day of the Snan felt like just the way I would want to end my day, on such occasions.Someone to talk to about everything because the stimuli were so much! Julie told me she cannot stand crowd and talked with great self pride as she refers to herself as ‘Hum’, which I absolutely loved.It was absolutely with admiration and gratitude, I listened as she recounted her sprees into the city with her family. That her family loves her, was so evident in the way she spoke about everything. 



Chai chakli & gupshup



Julie & I , next to her very well decorated mandir. ☺️

There were a few more very interesting acquaintances I couldn’t take pictures of and much more to say that can’t all be written here. 



I feel happy that I made this trip and it was managed fairly well, though I could have done better but maybe next time, somewhere something else! ♥️


A lovely hoarding I had to stand with and get a click.🤩

There’s some more… let us wish there’s some more always to come! Wait for the next one folks! 



Manas-Manthan



The Air India staff has been heard asking the passengers to ask all those in Mumbai, planning a trip to Prayagraj, to stop planning to come now for Kumbh Mela. They are in distress. They say that on a meagre salary ( amount not quoted) they are overdelivering. I looked at the staff member, her hair was unkempt, her eyes were tired and her spirit was fatigued. I imagined, how rushed she would’ve felt everyday and bogged down with endless check-ins from a sea of devotees inundating the city day in and day out, wanting to take a dip in the holy Ganges. 




















This Kumbh mela has affected people’s lives in so many ways, one would never know of. 

Everyone has made business. 


And there are some who’re waiting for business to start, crowd to clear up, schools to open, colleges to reopen, so that businesses can resume. 




I’m carrying Kumbh water and some mementos with me and I think the courier services will make good business too. 




The counters have run out of snacks


Joining  the long and winding Satvik meal line seems futile, I’ll never make it to the counter. 😏 I settle for just coffee.  I have had a fist of dry fruits with this coffee so far, since morning. I’m hungry now and my pit is asking for some grub. 

I’m dreaming of Tibbs Frankie Roll at 30000 feet above sea level. :D 

And contemplating whether I should have it  after reaching home or before. :D 



I headed straight to the Tibbs booth after I land. 



My son calls me to tell me how he cannot handle the cook’s niceness anymore and that I should come back home quickly… The cook who insists on you having food when it’s still warm. She insists he should have paranthas when they’re still ‘garam-garam and asks after every meal made, “kaisa tha?” like a novice expecting a compliment each time she cooks. 


 I close my eyes and thank all the niceness of this world.I admonish him to stay on course and do what needs to be done. 

That is, commend her efforts. 





That’s the thing. When you stop appreciating efforts, one day people give up. Don’t be that person who stops giving encouragement when it’s due. Those words of encouragement keep efforts going, work happening and people moving upwards on the progress chart. 






As I head back home, my heart is so full, as the pretty Air India hostess offers me food, it wells up and shows up in my eyes… should I ‘claim’ the privileges of my world or should I receive them with thankfulness?!  I decide for the latter. 




‘Experience epic everyday’ is my tagline for things big and small this year. Let the churn of  ‘अमृत-मंथन’ keep you heady and  in a state of ‘woke’ for all times to come. 

20th February, 2025
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Lost & Found this!

Who would have thought? In an alien city, I meet my bestie's brothers, known to me after maybe more than 25 years… !!  A fantastic start...